Bu De Bu Ai (Simplified Chinese: 不得不爱, Traditional Chinese: 不得不愛) or 'Have to Love' is a widely celebrated pop song in the People's Republic of China, as well as other Chinese-speaking nations, such as Singapore. It is widely popular in part because it is sung in both Chinese and English by the artist, Pan Wei Bo (Wilber Pan/潘玮柏), featuring Xian Zi (弦子).

The song was released in Wilber Pan's 4th album Gao Shou (高手).

The song was also featured in S.H.E's Perfect 3 Concert World Tour during each of the China stops for the group, where Wilber Pan and Hebe Tian performed the song as a duet.

It was also made widely popular by the Backdorm Boys, 2 Chinese University Students who lip sync and act out pop songs in front of their webcam from their dorm room.

The Song was also sung by Bao Thy in the Miss Audition competition.

The song was first made in Korea in 2004 by the group Freestyle and is called "Please Tell Me Why".
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