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.Orgasm control, also known as "edging", "peaking", "surfing", and by other terms,[1] is a sexual technique involving either an active partner taking control over a passive partner's orgasm, or one person controlling their own orgasm in sexual intercourse or through masturbation.^ The extended orgasm technique can be practiced during solo masturbation or with a partner.

^ It is only when we bring all of ourselves to any sexual encounter that we can experience it fully, which may well involve experiencing very intense, multiple orgasms!.
  • Vulva University.org | Advance Orgasm 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.houseochicks.com [Source type: Original source]

^ It was explained at the outset that this particular class would focus on the physiological aspects of the "extended orgasm" or orgasm control techniques popularized through books like "ESO" by Allen Brauer or "One Hour Orgasm" by Bob Schwartz , and that there would be little or no reference to tantra puja or sacred sexuality .
  • Extended Orgasm: A Sexual Training Class 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.luckymojo.com [Source type: General]

.As it pertains to this page, the orgasm is controlled and held back for an extended period of time as near as possible to the orgasm itself, and then the person is finally allowed to experience the orgasm.^ Very few of us have had the time or inclination to explore our sexuality freely, outside the bounds of what we are told is possible; almost all of us are still held back by what is deemed 'normal,' or 'healthy.
  • Vulva University.org | Advance Orgasm 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.houseochicks.com [Source type: Original source]

^ An extended, fully satisfying, ejaculatory orgasm, without any need for special muscle control.
  • http://keithlynch.net/april1/extend.html 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC keithlynch.net [Source type: Original source]

^ Extended orgasm is like surfing a succession of ever-higher waves, and involves learning to ride the orgasmic energy for long periods of time, often over an hour.
  • Why Expand Your Orgasm? | Tantra.com 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.tantra.com [Source type: General]

.Called "slow masturbation" in Alex Comfort's The New Joy of Sex (1984)[2]and "extended massive orgasm" in Vera and Steve Bodansky's 2000 book of the same name, it is similar to the Venus Butterfly technique used in the volume The One Hour Orgasm (1999) by Leah and Bob Schwartz.^ Steve and Vera Bodansky about Instant Orgasm.
  • Podcast: Expanded Lovemaking - Sex, Love, and Consciousness 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.personallifemedia.com [Source type: General]

^ In illustrated fully by book workshop leaders sex Steve and Vera Bodansky,.

^ Brauers research on so called extended orgasm.
  • sociobiology | Reuniting 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.reuniting.info [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

.However, any method of stimulation--manual, oral, intercourse, or with sex toys--can be used by either a single person or by one or more active partners to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.^ It is only when we bring all of ourselves to any sexual encounter that we can experience it fully, which may well involve experiencing very intense, multiple orgasms!.
  • Vulva University.org | Advance Orgasm 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.houseochicks.com [Source type: Original source]

^ I'll teach you the same techniques I use with every woman I date to give them wild screaming phone sex orgasms.

^ We are thus no longer bound in any way by fear of lack in our personal experience and we can give so much more freely with joy!

.In a two-person exchange, a partner will stimulate the receiver, gradually bringing them up to the point high in the plateau phase where an orgasm is actually building, and will then reduce the level of stimulation just below that needed to trigger the orgasm.^ Start by giving your lover slow, gentle stimulation, gradually bringing her (or him) near the edge of orgasm, but then reduce the level of stimulation to just below that needed to trigger the orgasm.

^ Discover easy-to-learn methods to increase your partner's pleasure and build her arousal so she can reach a fully satisfying extended orgasm.

^ A high percentage of women find it difficult to orgasm with penetration alone, and require clitoral stimulation.
  • Female Orgasm - AskMen.com 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC au.askmen.com [Source type: General]

.By carefully varying the intensity and speed of stimulation, and by practicing with the same partner to learn their responses, a person is held in the highly-aroused state near orgasm.^ By carefully varying the intensity of stimulation, you can keep your partner in a frenzied state before allowing her to rest and catch her breath.

^ Discover easy-to-learn methods to increase your partner's pleasure and build her arousal so she can reach a fully satisfying extended orgasm.

^ As you continue to practice, both partners will learn the characteristics of each other's orgasm, and you will come simultaneously in natural, effortless manner.
  • Orgasmic Reports 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.mumyouan.com [Source type: Original source]

.This process may be repeated as desired, but at some point repetition may cause the urge to orgasm to become overwhelming.^ Continue to repeat this technique until your lover becomes overwhelmed with the urge to climax.

^ Soon after the orgasm, there is a point where the world becomes white and the awareness fades away rapidly or abruptly.
  • Sexual Goddess & Tantra: Philosophy, Tantric Sex Positions, Unity of Mind, Body, Universe. Indian Goddesses, Pictures 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC sexuality.spaceandmotion.com [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

^ Based on your needs and desires, your instructors may teach you some or all of the following techniques to give you a foundation to reconnect with yourself and your beloved.
  • Sacred Desire - Igniting the fires of intimacy, passion, and ecstasy 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.sacreddesire.com [Source type: General]

.When a partner eventually provides enough stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be stronger than usual due to the increased tension and arousal that builds up during the extended stimulation.^ The extended orgasm technique can be practiced during solo masturbation or with a partner.

^ Discover easy-to-learn methods to increase your partner's pleasure and build her arousal so she can reach a fully satisfying extended orgasm.

^ If you sense your partner is coming down from a place of high arousal or if you think she's nearing orgasm, it can be tempting to speed up the stroke and apply more pressure to her clitoris.

.Since orgasm control prolongs the experience of powerful sexual sensations occurring during the final build-up to orgasm, the physical demands of being kept or keeping oneself in this highly-excited state for an extended time can induce a pleasurable, almost euphoric state, and at times creates changes within an individual's perceived consciousness.^ The aim of extended orgasm is to prolong the pleasurable sensations that occur near the end of the sexual response cycle, just before orgasm.

^ It is only when we bring all of ourselves to any sexual encounter that we can experience it fully, which may well involve experiencing very intense, multiple orgasms!.
  • Vulva University.org | Advance Orgasm 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.houseochicks.com [Source type: Original source]

^ Extend Her Pleasure Want to make your girl's orgasm last so long it'll make her weak in the knees?
  • Female Orgasm - AskMen.com 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC au.askmen.com [Source type: General]

Contents

An aspect of familiarity

Orgasm control requires a degree of skill. .It requires enough familiarity with either a partner or one's own responses to be able to vary the intensity and the timing of the stimulation accurately.^ By carefully varying the intensity of stimulation, you can keep your partner in a frenzied state before allowing her to rest and catch her breath.

^ 'The male partner should be able to let the female partner attain 4 to 6 times of orgasms during one session at ease.
  • Sexual Goddess & Tantra: Philosophy, Tantric Sex Positions, Unity of Mind, Body, Universe. Indian Goddesses, Pictures 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC sexuality.spaceandmotion.com [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

^ If your pattern of rhythmic stimulation is correct, the periods of time between contractions, squeeze or push-out, will be very brief - approximately one to five seconds.

.If there is too little stimulation, or if it is reduced too soon, the experience is not as intense as it could have been.^ This is the same sensitivity a woman experiences in early stimulation of the clitoris, especially when she's young, and the tongue is a little firm.
  • Advait Tantra school WebLog 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC tantraschool.co.za [Source type: Original source]

.If there is too much stimulation or it goes on for too long, a person may pass the point of no return and the orgasm will inevitably occur.^ Soon after the orgasm, there is a point where the world becomes white and the awareness fades away rapidly or abruptly.
  • Sexual Goddess & Tantra: Philosophy, Tantric Sex Positions, Unity of Mind, Body, Universe. Indian Goddesses, Pictures 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC sexuality.spaceandmotion.com [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

^ There‚Äôs things that can be communicated in person that no amount of words or pictures can convey and a teacher can often point out blind spots, areas of unconscious avoidance.
  • Advait Tantra school WebLog 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC tantraschool.co.za [Source type: Original source]

^ When you do this, her arousal may build rapidly to much higher levels than it would if you continually stimulated her in the same way.

Practiced by individuals

.Because solo masturbation allows for precise control over the feelings, the timing, and the speed of stimulation, many people practice orgasmic control by themselves.^ How many times a day does a woman have an orgasm in this practice?
  • Podcast: Expanded Lovemaking - Sex, Love, and Consciousness 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.personallifemedia.com [Source type: General]

^ Learn how commonly she encounters this in her practice, and why she feels it will be a growing consideration for many men.
  • Podcast: Expanded Lovemaking - Sex, Love, and Consciousness 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.personallifemedia.com [Source type: General]

^ When the leveling or resting periods disappear and her contractions are all deep push-outs, she has entered the expanded orgasmic phase, Phase 2 ESO. During ESO practice you will be more in control of the stimulation than your partner.

.One technique is where one will masturbate up until the moment before reaching the plateau phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stopping suddenly before experiencing a climax.^ The idea is for you, the man, to get aroused - but you stop before you reach orgasm.
  • All about the penis - advanced masturbation and sexual techniques 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.my-penis.org [Source type: Original source]

^ One couple followed through so far and others are in the "We'll get back to you after we discuss it or when we can set it up" phase.
  • Sharing my Hot Wife [Archive] - Backpage.com Forums 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC forums.backpage.com [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

^ In single, brief orgasm (Stage I), arousal increases with stimulation through an excitement phase to an orgasm of one-second contractions lasting from about three to twelve seconds.

.Another technique is to slow down the stimulation while still in the plateau phase, and "surfing" that for an extended time.^ In this school, this technique has proved to be of great use for all of us at some time or another, and is a favourite regular practice.
  • Advait Tantra school WebLog 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC tantraschool.co.za [Source type: Original source]

^ Extended orgasm is like surfing a succession of ever-higher waves, and involves learning to ride the orgasmic energy for long periods of time, often over an hour.

^ With all of these components in place, you can coax extended massive orgasm by teasing your lover using a variety of manual stimulation techniques.
  • FOXSexpert: 10 Steps to Extended Massive Orgasm - Sex | Erectile Dysfunction | Sexual Health - FOXNews.com 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.foxnews.com [Source type: General]

.Repeating either of these techniques many times during a single masturbation may result in a stronger, more intense orgasm.^ The stronger these muscles the more powerful your orgasm and the more control you will have over them.
  • How to Extend an Orgasm | eHow.com 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.ehow.com [Source type: General]

^ 'The male partner should be able to let the female partner attain 4 to 6 times of orgasms during one session at ease.
  • Sexual Goddess & Tantra: Philosophy, Tantric Sex Positions, Unity of Mind, Body, Universe. Indian Goddesses, Pictures 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC sexuality.spaceandmotion.com [Source type: FILTERED WITH BAYES]

^ How many times a day does a woman have an orgasm in this practice?
  • Podcast: Expanded Lovemaking - Sex, Love, and Consciousness 9 October 2009 6:19 UTC www.personallifemedia.com [Source type: General]

See also

References

  1. ^ Extended Massive Orgasm, Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky, (2000), pages 91,92,94-98, ISBN 89793-289-7
  2. ^ The New Joy of Sex,Alex Comfort, (1994), ISBN 1-85732-097-2

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