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Spiritual wifery is a term first used in
America by the Immortalists in and near the Blackstone
Valley of Rhode
Island and Massachusetts in the 1740s. The term
describes the idea that certain people are divinely destined to
meet and share their love (at differing points along the
carnal-spiritual spectrum, depending on the particular religious
movement involved) after a receiving a spiritual confirmation, and
regardless of previous civil marital bonds.[1] Its
history in Europe among various Christian primitivistic movements
has been well documented.[2] The
followers of Jacob
Cochran as early as 1818 used "spiritual wifery" to describe
their religious doctrine of free love. Often confused with polygamy, spiritual wifery
among the Cochranites was the practice in which communal mates were
temporarily assigned and reassigned, either by personal preference
or religious authority.
The term was later introduced to Mormonism by John C. Bennett, who openly applied it
to the doctrine of plural marriage.
According to Helen Mar Whitney, "At the time [in Nauvoo] spiritual
wife was the title by which every woman who entered into this order
was called, for it was taught and practiced as a spiritual
order."[3] Bennett
was soon excommunicated for such offenses.
William Smith,
youngest brother of Joseph Smith, Jr. and an Apostle, as
well as briefly Patriarch to the LDS Church, wrote a little-known
pamphlet in late 1844, called The Elders' Pocket
Companion, explaining his own views on the differences between
"the Spiritual Wife System" and "plurality of wives". Smith
explained that spiritual wifery was the practice of: (1) an LDS
woman standing as living proxy for her husband's previous civil
wife (or wives) to be "sealed" to him for all eternity by the power
of LDS priesthood, and (2) unmarried LDS women being sealed
plurally to LDS men during the "Millennium" (the post-apocalyptic
thousand year reign of Jesus on the earth). The "plurality of wives
doctrine" however, Smith wrote, was simply biblical polygamy as
practiced by the "ancient Prophets and Patriarchs". Citing the Book
of Mormon, Smith ended his pamphlet emphasizing that the Book of
Mormon, while generally proscribing biblical-type polygamy, does
include the loophole, "For if I will, saith the Lord of Hosts,
raise up a seed unto me, I WILL COMMAND MY PEOPLE" (emphasis is
Smith's).[4] Smith's
theories however belied his praxis, for he not only had some five
civil wives (two of whom he was sealed to by LDS priesthood) but he
was also sealed to some 17 other women, whom he generally referred
to as "spiritual wives."[5]
The term complex
marriage was later used by the Oneida Community in the 1840s to
describe a free marriage practice similar to spiritual wifery.
References
- ^
William G. McLoughlin, "Free Love, Immortalism, and Perfectionism
in Cumberland, Rhode Island, 1748-1768," Rhode Island
History 33 (1974), pp. 67-85
- ^
John L. Brooke, The Refiner's Fire: the Making of Mormon
Cosmology, 1644-1844 (Cambridge University Press, 1996), pp.
28, 46, 56, 57, 117, etc.
- ^
Todd Compton,
In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith
(Signature Books, 1997)
- ^
William Smith, The Elders' Pocket Companion, (probably
Boston, Massachusetts: self-published, 1844), as quoted in John K.
Sheen, Polygamy: or, The Veil Lifted, (York, Nebraska:
Self-Published, 1889), pp. 15-21; online at http://olivercowdery.com/smithhome/1880s-1890s/1889She1.htm
- ^
D. Michael Quinn, The Mormon Hierarchy: Origins of Power
(Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1994), p. 594.
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