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Hip hip hooray! Artists celebrating at Skagen by Danish painter P.S. Krøyer, 1888

A toast is a ritual in which a drink is taken as an expression of honour or goodwill. The term may be applied to the person or thing so honoured, the drink taken, or the verbal expression accompanying the drink. Thus, a person could be "the toast of the evening", for whom someone "proposes a toast" to congratulate and for whom a third person "toasts" in agreement. The ritual forms the basis of the literary and performance genre, of which Mark Twain's "To the Babies" is a well-known example.[1]

The toast as described here is rooted in Western culture, but certain cultures outside that sphere have their own traditions in which consuming a drink is connected with ideas of celebration and honour. While the physical and verbal ritual of the toast may be elaborate and formal, merely raising one's glass towards someone or something and then drinking is essentially a toast as well, the message being one of goodwill towards the person or thing indicated.

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History

According to various apocryphal stories, the custom of touching glasses evolved from concerns about poisoning. By one account, clinking glasses together would cause each drink to spill over into the others (though there is no real evidence for such an origin)[2] According to other stories, the word 'toast' became associated with the custom in the 17th century, based on a custom of flavouring drinks with spiced toast. The word originally referred to the lady in whose honour the drink was proposed, her name being seen as figuratively flavouring the drink.[3][4] The International Handbook on Alcohol and Culture says toasting "is probably a secular vestige of ancient sacrificial libations in which a sacred liquid was offered to the gods: blood or wine in exchange for a wish, a prayer summarized in the words ‘long life!’ or ‘to your health!’”[5]

Situations

New Year's toast, Germany, 1953

Toasts are generally offered at times of celebration or commemoration, including certain holidays, such as New Year's Eve. Other occasions include retirement celebrations, housewarming parties, births, etc.[6] The protocol for toasting at weddings is comparatively elaborate and fixed. At a wedding reception, the father of the bride, in his role as host, regularly offers the first toast,[7] thanking the guests for attending, offering tasteful remembrances of the bride's childhood, and wishing the newlyweds a happy life together. The best man usually proposes a toast in the form of best wishes and congratulations to the newlyweds. A best man's toast takes the form of a short speech (3-5 minutes) that combines a mixture of humour and sincerity. The humour often comes in the shape of the best man telling jokes at the groom's expense whilst the sincerity incorporates the praise and complimentary comments that a best man should make about the bride and groom, amongst others. The actual "toast" is then delivered at the end of the speech and is a short phrase wishing the newlyweds a happy, healthy, loving life together. The maid of honour may follow suit, appropriately tailoring her comments to the bride. The groom may offer the final toast, thanking the bride's parents for hosting the wedding, the wedding party for their participation, and finally dedicating the toast to the bridesmaids.[8]

Typical traditional wedding toasts include the following:[9]

(to the couple)
Here's to your coffins
May they be made of hundred-year-old oaks
Which we shall plant tomorrow.
May you both live as long as you want, and never want as long as you live
May the best of your yesterdays be the worst of your tomorrows.
(to the bride)
May I see you grey
And combing your grandchildren's hair.

Toasts are also offered on patriotic occasions, as in the case of Stephen Decatur's famous "Our country! In her intercourse with foreign nations may she always be in the right; but our country, right or wrong." Equally traditional are satiric verses:

Here's to dear old Boston,
The home of the bean and the cod,
Where Lowells speak only to Cabots,
And Cabots speak only to God.[10]

Norms and Etiquette of toasting

Toasting at Oktoberfest

Toasts may be solemn, sentimental, humorous, even bawdy[11] or insulting.[12] The practice of announcing one's intention to make a toast and signalling for quiet by rapping on the wineglass, while common, is nonetheless [13]regarded by some authorities as rude. Except in very small and informal gatherings, a toast is offered standing. At a gathering, none should offer a toast to the guest of honour until the host has had the opportunity to do so. In English-speaking countries, guests may signal their approval of the toast by saying "hear hear."[14] The person honoured should neither stand nor drink,[15] but after the toast should rise to thank the one who has offered the toast, perhaps but not necessarily offering a toast in turn.[16] As toasts may occur in long series, experienced attendees often make sure to leave enough wine in the glass to allow participation in numerous toasts.[17]

Putting one's glass down before the toast is complete, or simply holding one's glass without drinking is widely regarded as impolite, suggesting that one does not share the benevolent sentiments expressed in the toast, nor the unity and fellowship implicit in toasting itself.[18] Even the non-drinker is counselled not to refuse to allow wine to be poured for a toast[19] Inverting the glass is especially discouraged[20]

Toasting traditionally involves alcoholic beverages. [21] Champagne (or at least some variety of sparkling wine) is regarded as especially festive and is widely associated with New Year's Eve and other celebrations.[22] While many people nowadays substitute sparkling fruit juice (often packaged in champagne-style bottles[23]), and many authorities consider it perfectly acceptable to participate in a toast while drinking water,[24] formerly, refusal to drink might give offence; noted teetotaller William Jennings Bryan, on a state visit, toasted a Japanese admiral with his water glass, pointing out that his host had won his victories on water, and if he should ever win a battle on champagne, he would willingly toast him[25] in champagne. While some regard toasting with an empty glass as either unlucky or simply rude,[26] others view this as acceptable behaviour for the non-drinker.[27]

It is a superstition in the United States Navy that a toast is never to be made with water, this being said to indicate that the person so honoured will be doomed to a watery grave.[28] During a United States Air Force Dining In, all toasts are traditionally made with wine except for the final toast of the night made in honour of POWs/MIAs;[29] because these honourees did not have the luxury of wine while in captivity, the toast is made with water. Some versions of the protocol prescribe a toast in water for all deceased comrades[30]

Traditional Toasts

In the British Navy, the officers' noon mess typically began with the loyal toast (see below), followed by a toast distinctive for the day of the week:[31]

  • Monday: Our ships at sea.
  • Tuesday: Our men.
  • Wednesday: Ourselves.
  • Thursday: A bloody war and quick promotion.
  • Friday: A willing soul and sea room.
  • Saturday: Sweethearts and wives, may they never meet.
  • Sunday: Absent friends and those at sea.

The sequence was also prescribed in at least one publication for the United States Navy.[32]

A toast might be spontaneous and free-form, a carefully planned original speech, or a recitation of traditional sentiments such as this Irish example:[33]

May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.

Worldwide

In many cultures, toasting is common and to not do so may be a breach of etiquette. The general theme of the common brief toasts is "good luck" or "good health". At formal meals in certain countries of the Commonwealth of Nations, the first toast to be proposed is traditionally the Loyal Toast ("The Queen"). This may be adapted in other countries to give a loyal toast to the appropriate Head of State.[34]

Other examples include:

See also

References

  1. ^ http://etext.virginia.edu/railton/onstage/babies.html
  2. ^ http://www.snopes.com/food/rituals/clink.asp
  3. ^ "toast". Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Random House, Inc. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/toast. Retrieved 2007-08-25. 
  4. ^ Harper, Douglas (2001). "toast". Online Etymology Dictionary. http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=toast&searchmode=term. Retrieved 2007-08-25. 
  5. ^ http://books.google.com/books?id=ztzcZbRaKXsC&dq=International+Handbook+on+Alcohol+and+Culture&pg=PP1&ots=ACaeph5TrW&source=bn&sig=XkOP3kbngmpWHT6OXweefhm6ano&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=4&ct=result#PPA81,M1
  6. ^ Boswell, Sandra. Protocol Matters: Cultivating Social Graces in Christian Homes and Schools. Canon PRess, 2007 p. 140
  7. ^ http://www.emilypost.com/everyday/tips_on_toasts.htm
  8. ^ http://www.toastchampagne.co.uk/facts/toasting.php
  9. ^ http://weddings.about.com/od/theweddingparty/a/toastsamples_2.htm
  10. ^ http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/letters/3585589/Home-of-the-bean-and-the-cod.html
  11. ^ http://www.folklore.ms/html/recitations/short_recitations/toasts/bawdy_toasts/index.htm
  12. ^ http://www.folklore.ms/html/recitations/short_recitations/toasts/toasts_insulting.htm
  13. ^ http://www.toastchampagne.co.uk/facts/toasting.php
  14. ^ http://jmarprotocol.com/helpfiles/air_force_dining.asp
  15. ^ http://www.intowine.com/wine-toasts2.html
  16. ^ http://www.emilypost.com/everyday/tips_on_toasts.htm
  17. ^ http://www.hmsrichmond.org/toast.htm
  18. ^ http://www.bkthedj.com/wedding/wedding_traditions_history.php
  19. ^ http://74.125.95.132/search?q=cache:sHp8_flP4AEJ:www.bradley.edu/campusorg/pct/Test%2520Your%2520Business%2520Etiquette.doc+toast+glass+%22upside+down%22+impolite&cd=3&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us
  20. ^ http://kansascity.bizjournals.com/kansascity/stories/1998/02/02/smallb2.html
  21. ^ http://www.drinkplanner.com/2009/06/12/ask-drinkplanner-toasting-without-booze/
  22. ^ http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/335/7633/1281
  23. ^ http://www.cincinnatisparklingjuices.com/
  24. ^ http://kansascity.bizjournals.com/kansascity/stories/1998/02/02/smallb2.html
  25. ^ Bryan, William Jennings. Heart to Heart Appeals. NY:Revell, 1917 p.50
  26. ^ http://www.scheidvineyards.com/tastingroom/thetwistedvine/pdf/oct97.pdf
  27. ^ http://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1310&dat=19921230&id=824VAAAAIBAJ&sjid=gOoDAAAAIBAJ&pg=5496,6944063
  28. ^ http://thewinehistorian.blogspot.com/2009/11/raditional-us-navy-wine-toast.html
  29. ^ http://www.airforcewives.com/index.php/content/view/1125/342/
  30. ^ http://jmarprotocol.com/helpfiles/air_force_dining.asp
  31. ^ http://www.pussers.com/rum/folklore
  32. ^ US Navy's "Mess Night Manual", Naval School, Civil Engineer Corps Officers, Port Hueneme, California, August 1986
  33. ^ http://talesoftanglewood.blogspot.com/2008/07/irish-sayings-blessings-toasts.html
  34. ^ http://www.hmsrichmond.org/toast.htm
  35. ^ http://www.welcome-moldova.com/articles/wine-festival-in-moldova.shtml

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